Mastering Lindy Hop being a part time dancer can be accomplished. I’m married, raising 2 children, running two businesses, and still able to practice my lindy hop on a daily basis. Not an easy task, but I do it. Most people work jobs and don’t have the time to block out a few hours daily, or travel twice a month to feed their Lindy habit.
I wrote this article because people ask me how I am able to do all I do, and still improve in dance. Here is an easy way to master the dance in whatever time frame you desire. The key words are “time frame.” You can condense your learning time with the principles I’ll share in the upcoming paragraphs, and Master Lindy Hop faster as a result. Just remember that everything starts small.
Leads:
Small things add up over time. By the time you see the results, it indicates that you’ve done many things that seemed to be unimportant, and non praise worthy. For example: Practicing triple stepping to your favorite mid tempo song the correct way to 3 songs a day doesn’t seem like a big deal. In fact, the next day you won’t feel any different. It didn’t destroy your existing dance vocabulary if you neglected to do it, nor did it make you an instant Lindy Hop Master. At least not right then. That is the secret.
By the time you’ve obtained the results you wanted, you’ve already done the work, when most people would want to equate your progressive discipline as “talent.” Most would rather cram all their efforts into one dance weekend and then relax when they return home, practice on occasion, and then wait for the next big event. Doing easy things over a period of time is what you want to aim for. The key is to make them easy to do, and easy not to do. This will make it easy for you to not make an excuse about the lack of time or difficulty level in your commitment.
This is the secret of how everything in nature works, but we live in a culture that promotes the violation of everything you do in your life naturally. Robbing a bank, looking for the next amazing diet pill, winning the lottery, or taking a class and expecting perfection after the first couple of tries are all extreme examples of trying to omit the process. Cultivation is the key, and seems to be the invisible part that no one sees you do or won’t praise you for doing.
“But what if you don’t have someone to practice with!” My response may seem elementary but profoundly significant. Do what babies do. They imitate what they see, mess up, then correct over and over until they get it. This happens even if they don’t understand verbal language. Their body knows that it’s designed to master things over time. I’ve never met an adult that still crawled like a baby and said they just gave up on that walking idea. Like babies, you will eventually master whatever it is you want to accomplish, even if you don’t fully understand the how in the moment. Just do the what for now.
Pick a lead that executes many shapes you like, pick 2 shapes, and mimic the leads positions while practicing without a partner. By the time you get to the next event and execute the shapes with a real partner, you’ve eliminated the anxiety that comes with not knowing where you want to go. Now all you have to do is polish the way it should feel. Think like a solo dancer.
Follows:
Follows, I would suggest doing the same thing leads do. Pick a follow that you would like to emulate, and then mimic her shapes and body movements in motion. That’s it. You don’t need a partner to lead the shapes that you practice with your body. Let the lead decided the where to go on the dance floor, and you decide how well you would like to look in finishing those movements. The styling can be handled without him. If you need a sense of momentum in styling your movements, practice absorbing into your living room wall, or pulling away from your bathroom door knob.
Have you taken our 4 part series dedicated for follow mastery? It’s over 3 1/2 hours!
The idea is that you can adjust how you look individually, and then practice how you feel with a partner. It will take time to become comfortable in your own skin stylistically. Much easier after you master the fundamentals.
The point is that both leads and follows can do something with what they have, and the ideal situation is to make “that” easy to do everyday. Use inspiration from dancers to help you become yourself over time, and show them your gratitude by applying their principles on the dance floor.
These concepts have proven to work for myself. I’ve tried them with 1,000’s of leads and followers. They may not work for everyone, but everyone should have the opportunity to model a successful example.
Set a goal for yourself. Focus on one thing that you can work on and do it 19 days for 15 minutes a day.
Write me and let me know how you are progressing. You can do it!